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一人で悶々と考えてたって答えは見つからない。答えは誰かとの対話の中にきっとある

迷ったり悩んだりしている時は一人で悶々と考えていたらたぶんダメです。大体において思考が悪い方向にループし続け、ろくなことになりません。

…と、頭では分かっているのですがエネルギーが低下しているとなかなか外に出たり人に話をすることができません。あれー、人に会うのってこんなにエネルギー使うんだっけ。

その結果、ご多分に漏れず、ずいぶんと思考の迷宮に迷い込みました。というかこれは別に今回の一件に限らず以前からよく迷い込んでいたところがありますが…。

「他人は自分の鏡」みたいな言葉がありますが、最近それをとても実感しています。自分のことって、意外と自分が一番よく分かってなかったりするところもあります。人に合って話すことで思いのほか自分のことがよく見えてくる。

「あー、自分って周りからはこんな感じに見えていたのか」とか、「自分って本当はこんなこと考えてたんだ」とか。そんなことに気づかされることが最近多くなりました。

つまり、何らかの気づきやヒントが得たければ、最初は多少しんどくても、どんどん外に出て人に会った方が答えが見つかりやすいんじゃないかなー。

あと、「これから会うぞ」って言う時ってほんとにエネルギーがいるのですが、実際に会って話すと逆にすごくエネルギーをもらえたりします。変な例えですが、会う直前のエネルギー消費さえ乗り越えられれば最終的にはプラスに持っていけるというか(笑)。

そんなわけで、自分を見つめ直して次のエネルギーを蓄えるため、人にどんどん会いたいなと思っています。

Facebookで今回の一件のことを報告したところ多くの人からいろんなお誘いをいただきました。普通にお会いするだけでなく、いくつかのアポではもの作りをやったり何かを見学したり、というちょっとしたイベント付きのもあって楽しみです。せっかくなのでぜんぶブログネタにする予定。


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